How Well Do You Know Me is a live couples quiz for two. One of you answers a question about yourself. While you do, the other person guesses which answer you picked. Then you swap. After eight questions the game shows a match score out of 100% and how many each of you got right.
There's no typing and no sign-up. Every question is multiple choice with four options, so a full game takes about four minutes. Play side by side on one phone, or send a link and play from anywhere.
How to play How Well Do You Know Me
- Choose online or same device. Online gives you a room link. Text it to your partner and press Start game once their name appears. Same device only asks for two names.
- Take turns in the spotlight. The first player is the subject for questions 1, 3, 5 and 7. The second player gets 2, 4, 6 and 8. So each of you answers four about yourself and guesses four about the other person.
- The subject answers honestly. Their screen says something like "Your zombie-apocalypse role?" with four choices.
- The guesser predicts that answer. Their screen asks the same thing by name, like "Sam's zombie-apocalypse role?"
- See both picks. A match is a point for the guesser. A miss gets "Wrong!" and a request for the subject to explain.
- Get your score. After question eight you see the total as a percentage, plus each player's guesses out of four.
Sample couples quiz questions and answers
The free Classic pack has 24 questions, and every game pulls eight at random. A few of them, with their answer choices:
| Question | Answer choices |
|---|---|
| If you were a sandwich, which one? | Grilled cheese · Club, extra everything · PB&J, crusts off · Whatever's in the fridge |
| You win $1,000 tonight. First move? | Save it · Fancy dinner · Something online, instantly · Plane ticket |
| Your zombie-apocalypse role? | Leader · The cook · First to go · Secretly the zombie |
| Which animal are you before coffee? | Sloth · Angry goose · Grumpy cat · Golden retriever, somehow |
| How do you handle a spider? | Calmly take it outside · Scream, leave the room · Shoe · Name it and let it stay |
| Your road-trip job? | Driver · DJ · Snack manager · Asleep in 10 minutes |
| How do you say sorry? | Says it right away · Makes food · Sends a meme · Pretends nothing happened |
They're easy to answer and easy to get wrong. You might be sure your partner's road-trip job is DJ, then find out they've always thought of themselves as snack manager.
Two ways to take the quiz together
| Mode | What you need | How a turn works |
|---|---|---|
| Play online | Two devices and one room link | Subject and guesser answer at the same time on their own screens |
| Same device | One phone or laptop | Subject answers, the game hides it, guesser picks after the handoff |
It's built for two players in both modes. You get 20 free games a day, and only the person who starts the game spends one. Whoever joins from the link plays without touching their own count.
Date Night and Holiday question packs
Classic is free. Unlimited members can switch packs in the lobby before starting:
- Date Night (16 questions) is about the two of you: your love language, the best way to make up after a fight, your ideal anniversary, which dessert you'd share.
- Holiday Season (16 questions) covers gift-wrapping style, when the decorations should go up, ugly sweater level and your New Year's Eve plans.
Online, the person who opens the room chooses the pack, so one plan covers both of you. Rooms opened by an Unlimited member also let each player add a photo that appears next to the questions about them.
What your match score means
The score is the number of correct guesses out of eight, shown as a percentage. Seven or eight right gets "Basically one person." Five or six gets "You really know each other." Three or four gets "Good, with a few surprises." Anything lower and the game suggests a long talk or a rematch. Treat it as a conversation starter and not as a compatibility test.
Tips for guessing your partner's answers
- Answer as you are. If you'd nap at the hotel on day one of a trip, pick that, even if "walk everywhere" sounds better. The game falls apart when the subject fibs.
- Guess from evidence. Think about what they did last time. Past behavior beats what people say they'd do.
- Play a rematch. With 24 questions in the pack and eight per game, a second round is mostly new.
A live quiz for new couples, long-term couples and friends
A lot of "how well do you know me" quizzes have one person write the questions and send them out for someone to fill in later. That works for a group chat, but it's slow when two people want to play right now. Here you both play in the same round, and the answer and the guess land together, so you get the reaction right away.
It's a good pick in the first few months of dating, when you're still learning the basics. Couples who've been together for years get plenty of surprises too. Best friends and siblings can play too. If you're long distance, open the room link during a call so you can see each other's faces. For more ideas along these lines, see our list of games to play with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Looking for something similar? Who Is More Likely To asks which of you fits a silly description, and our couple games page lists everything built for two players. For the full mix of quick browser games, start at the top free online games on our home page.
How Well Do You Know Me FAQ
How many questions are in How Well Do You Know Me?
Eight per game. Each player is the subject four times and the guesser four times.
Do we both need an account to play the couples quiz?
No. Neither player signs up. The person who opens the room link joins by typing a name.
Can we play How Well Do You Know Me on one phone?
Yes. Pick Same device. The subject answers, passes the phone, and the guesser picks. The game hides the first answer between turns.
What does the match score mean?
It's how many of the eight guesses were right, shown as a percentage. It's meant for fun and isn't a real compatibility test.
Can friends play, or is it only for couples?
Friends can play. It works for any two people who know each other well, including best friends, roommates and siblings.
Do we have to write our own quiz questions?
No. The questions and answer choices are built in. The free Classic pack has 24, and Unlimited members also get the Date Night and Holiday Season packs.